just thought I'd let ya'll know that Theo successfully ate for the first time in 2 months on Fri night. He shed his skin during thursday night and then munched happily later on fri.
I think that the stress of moving house and changing owner must have put him off his food originally. then with us trying to handle him he would have been more stressed. We did not handle him as soon as he showed signes of shedding and now he has eaten....finally.
We are gonna continue with handling him now. I had him out yesterday and he was fine, no aggresion at all. popped him in a pillow case and my bf held him inside his top while i cleaned the viv. he was happy to be handled for a change...so ya never know, with a bit more tlc, we might just have ourselves a very pleasant snake.
Thanks to everyone who has given me advise. I'd have been in a panic without your help.